How to plan a funeral in The Sims 4 Life & Death Expansion Pack

Funerals are a large part of The Sims 4’s Life & Death Expansion Pack, so you’ll need to know how you can plan one following a Sim’s demise.

As a life simulation game, death has always been a part ofThe Simssince thefirst installment of the franchise. For a while now, this has been a very ‘one and done’ type of experience — and there’s never been much that Sims can do following a passing.

A screenshot featuring a Sim giving an eulogy during a funeral in the Life and Death expansion pack.

That changes in theLife & Death expansion, allowing you to plan a funeral for your beloved Sims. And while the processcanbe pretty confusing at first, we’ll walk you through the steps needed to give your Sims a memorable send off.

How funerals work in The Sims 4 Life & Death

Funerals in The Sims 4 Life and Death pack involve three main steps:Planning, attending, and gameplay that comes after the funeral itself.

It’s also worth knowing thatfunerals aren’t restricted to your family or household members only. You can hold afuneral for any other Simin the game — even for ghosts you’ve just met!

A screenshot featuring the Calendar icon in The Sims 4.

How to plan a funeral

When it comes to planning a funeral, the first thing you’ll want to do is decide which Sim the event will be for. If the Sim who died happens to be nearby, you canselect their Urn to start planning the funeral. Otherwise, you’re able to follow the steps below:

Attending the funeral

When the funeral date of the chosen Sims arrives,you’ll get a notificationin the game letting you know when to get ready. Ideally, this is when you’ll want to be on standby at the location already, as guests will usually start coming not too long after this.

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A screenshot featuring the Plan an Event tab for The Sims 4 funerals.

What happens after this depends on the activities you selected earlier. The funeral itself runs much like any other limited-time event where you’ll be tasked to complete several objectives. Themore objectives you can complete, the better the medalyou’ll get at the end.

For example, if you choose to deliver an eulogy, you can click the podium and select the option to complete the activity. Some of the other activities, such as mourning or lighting a candle, require you to click the deceased Sim’s Urn.

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you may choose to place the Urn inside the casket as well. In this case, all you need to do is select the casket and click the Urn to interact with it.

Putting the Urn inside the casket basically just hides it from plain sight during the funeral and makes your Sim and other guests interact with the casket instead of it on the ground, adding to the realism. It’s completely up to you where you want to put it as it doesn’t exactly affect your gameplay, mainly just for visual purposes.

Image of Sims in The Sims 4 with the logo

What happens after a funeral in The Sims 4 Life & Death?

After the funeral is over, you canstill mourn the deceased Sim. However, if you feel like you’re ready to let them move on from the physical world, you can alsochoose to free their soul to the Netherworld, but this means they’ll no longer linger andhaunt around as ghosts.

Now that you know how to plan a funeral, ensure to check out our other content for The Sims 4, including a rundown ofthe best mods to download,the best expansions, andall the major cheats and how to use them.